Many people yearn for the ultimate twin flame relationship, the ultimate one to complete them, the flame of the hearts yearning, and believe that one person is out there for happy ever after. So I wish to address some of the realties of this.
When we meet a twin, the relationship is usually very intense and we merge spiritually in lovemaking in a very unusual way, that is powerfully expansive and activates light into the grids, it is a union that is beyond comprehension and rational sense.
But the path of the beloved is not always clear and does not follow traditional rules of society and traditional rules of relationship, and happens in many ways and forms.
So sometimes in rare instances we do meet the twin and have a 3d relationship with them and yet that is not always best way for holding the twin energy, especially if we are not ready for the intense mirror and all that will bring up for it shines a light of the love and light, but also on the shadows too.
Sometimes it is better to work in the ethers together.
So very often these kinds of relationships take form in strange ways that do not fit in societal rules and usual old paradigm 3d relationship expectations and frames. It is sometimes right that it happens from afar with occasional meeting because it could be too much for the soul to manage with the intensity of the connection on light and shadow.
However other times when the time is ripe the 2 can come together and merge in human material form, and then one must be open and prepared for what this will bring up. Because it shines light on both light and dark, on all aspects of self. So whilst the light is immense, it can also easily degenerate into trauma bonding and we have to BOTH be prepared for this to work through it together, sometimes this is possible to navigate and sometimes it is not, sometimes there is a temporary or permanent separation, and that is okay, this is beyond human needs of 3d relationship.
Always initially there is an intense and powerful and unusual, beautiful flow of light and always that initially, but often there are initiations to take and things to clear. This is the same with any relationship but in twin, all of it is very much intensified. And as said, it doesn't always sit in the old paradigm form of relationship as the light shines on the shadow too, and if there is past trauma there it can get very messy. Other times we are prepared and we can work through it together. Or as said, there may be a separation that needs to occur for a while. Some see this as an 'attack on twin flame' but what is happening is that the light is shone on inner fragmentation which rises to be seen & healed, since everything is triggered and projected but to an intensifying level. We are separated since we have to go into healing fragmented inner parts before we can reunite, or decide not to. Our way through is unconditional love, but for self first and foremost. (Those who do not have deep rooted self love, self worth, will project their trauma in what you may label the 'narcissist-codependant dance' where both are hurt within and lacking core self love).
So you understand that very often we are given initiations and things we must cross through first, in order to actualise, yet as said, this is not always best to actualise it.
And the human mind thinks it is best to be together in form but this is not always so.
Let us look at the primary example of the twin, Mary Magdalene and Yeshua were not always together in human form, there were many periods of physical separations. They had to cross many painful initiations within themselves and had many times they could not be together in form. Same with Isis and Osiris, Ishtar and Tamuz. These examples were high initiates, very high initiates who had done a huge amount of inner work and were enlightened beings, and look at what they still had to move through. But the light that came from their union was as powerful as the shadow, and changed the grids on earth through time.
The true twin is primarily yourself, falling in love with yourself, completing yourself, marrying your higher self with your human self.
Many times people think the other is the twin and they will complete them, and this can be dangerous, and in fact that belief is the very opposite of healthy love and twin energy, because for twin relationship we have to be whole within, unified with our own inner twin first (human and higher self married) to be able to hold and actualise an outer twin relationship in form.
It is a long deep inner spiritual path to that union, it is the path of the initiate, we have to cross through many initiations of the shadow as well as light, and empty out all our emotional wounds, it is the path of the 7 gates.
So always remember that first and foremost, the twin is yourself and your higher self and this has to be actualised so we understand we are the love we seek, we are the ones we seek. And then a beloved can come in and actually it can be a choice of beloveds who meet the right frequency. Then other times there is one in particular who is the perfect twin match for that frequency but this is not about the other, it is about your own connection and belonging with self within, for you are the love you seek. With focus on that, the twin or another beloved holding the frequency can then come in.
But very often it is a long road to that because we are not used to that sort of relationship, the human heart yearns for certain frames and criterias in relationship, and as said it also brings up things that are buried deep within and so twin relationships can be very activating but not always in beautiful ways they can bring up pain, trauma, and show up everything that is not working, and that can be projected so they can be very intense relationships.
Of course, not always. Of course there are times when 2 people are ready and can work through things together, and ready for the union and all it brings in both the light and shadow, able to hold it all, very solid within themselves and then together.
But many people stay in unhealthy, wounded sometimes abusive situations because they believe the other is the twin, and that might be so, or not, but it is important not to be put in toxic places, if the energy is too much and the people involved have not sorted out their stuff. Sometimes intensive relationship that is abusive can be mistaken for twin because it rocks us to the core and is a catalyst, but that is not always a twin. Your self care is of primary importance.
So when the light shines on the shadows and it can be too much to bear in its intensity for many, then in this case it is better to be alone or in a soul mate relationship and self care and go slowly step by step to work these things through - it is a little like taking mind altering medicine and leaping to the top of the mountain but then one if one is not ready, one is spewed out again at the bottom, and it is a mess as the psyche opens too fast too quick, so slow step by step is best.
Then other times, the time is ripe, we say, okay I will manage this. And we do. We both have to be ready and solid, it is no use if one is and the other is not. But if we are ready, then wow! And it does not always have to be experienced as a rollar coaster at all, sometimes it can present very differently. And we can reach that wow in many ways, so do not place your human expectations on it having to be actualised in form, for I am saying to you, that this is not always best way. Yet of course, other times it is. Every case is unique.
However although every case is unique, very often (although there are exceptions to the rule) it is very common in twin relationship that there is a test or challenge to follow it through, ie leaving other relationships or other sacrifices, and so being able to navigate both that, as well as the wounding the twin light energy can show up. And then yes, other times, with deep groundedness, self care, a solid base of health and worth, ripe timing, preparations in energy, the twin relationship will actualise in miraculous strange ways and encounters.
Perhaps a twin will come to fruition, you follow hunches, one day something happens, the timing is ripe and you both make the sacrifices and leaps to be together and you are both prepared to face the challenges the light will bring. But if not, it is also perfect. You can work with the soul in the ethers consciously or unconsciously (and if you do this consciously always of course in healthy respectful clear ways for highest good of all, and always giving them permission to accept or not, knowing what you put out comes back to you too) and so you can connect in love with the other there, with respect and unconditional love, and prepare your energy for it to be actualised, or not, it is all perfect. As said, sometimes you are not meant to be together in person. Twin love is always unconditional.
Other times, the twin can be a friend, family member or another being in human form elsewhere, or not in human form in this lifetime, who you do not have to physically meet. It is all perfect.
So twin union can happen in many ways not always in 3d form.
So sometimes a beloved comes carrying twin energy in human form, and despite the mess, you know you must leap, but other times you know you keep things calm, grounded, gentle. Each case is different.
Sometimes they are very short relationships that come to activate us bringing intense soul growth & learning, rock us to the core so we have to cross through the gates to rebirth with or without them. They are catalysts.
The depth of the pain of the heart in these connections can be great, earth shattering and we cannot understand why we are so very much affected. They change the course of your life, whether you stay together or leave.
But one can have several of these in one's life because there can be several beloveds who come to hold the twin frequency with you. When you are ready and call one in, it will be the one who matches your current frequency the best.
An Indian baba once said, "one soul, many bodies, no problem" in response to a question from someone who had past life memory of several people in the same timeline. You see there are so many layers to the soul and so many dimensions that are far, far beyond our human mind rational comprehension.
So whether you actualise twin relationship in 3d or it stays in 5d, it is important to focus on your own twin which is you, and from there actualise a healthy beloved. But first you need to be full within, 'wanting for nothing' at peace within, having healed your core inner child emotions. Otherwise you manifest a relationship that will match your inner need, which is trauma based.
Sometimes there is alot to be said to remain in deep and powerful soul mate relationship that may not be a twin, and is not the intensity of twin, but it is a very special deep soul mate love, and this can sometimes be healthier, kinder, more nourishing, more grounded and enables you to do the higher work from a solid place and gentle nourishing life. Then other times, as said, you know you must leap regardless, and soul mate relationships also become karmic trauma bonding that can be too toxic. Other times people choose to walk the path alone with no need for relationship anymore.
There can be many types of relationship, and sometimes people come in as very powerful catalysts that are not actually twin but mirror the twin, we are deeply connected in soul and teachers for one another and change one another's lives drastically, on the inner, no matter how long the connection is, but it is not a twin, this can be what one may call a 'false twin' or any other type of relationship.
It is most important that, whatever you do or don't do, your focus is primarily on your self care, self love, self fulfilment, on your own inner twin and health within, bridging your own higher and human self within you as the focus and whatever serves to aid this.
The path of the initiate is a deep one we have to cross many shadows within and sometimes a twin is not the best route for this. Then other times, it is. But remember that twin relationship will shine light on both the intense dark as well as the intense light.
And always always remember that ultimately, you are the one you seek.
First awaken your own Love within you. Do the inner child work. Connect to your inner divine feminine and let her awaken your own inner masculine within and vice versa, bridging your inner, your male and female, higher and human self, as a frequency within.
Love is all you seek - this is primarily divine love of goddess and love for thyself.
Love yourself beyond measure.
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